First story of the season. Here we go…
I’m not going to mention the suppliers name, but this is the jist of what happened.
It all started about 2 weeks ago when, after getting settled in at home after final exams, I started to kick back into gear with BTC and start buying all the things I was going to need for another summer of Jumping Castles and Cotton Candy.
My first party was on the May 7th (Saturday), and I needed this particular item to run my carnival that weekend.
So I call up my supplier on the 2nd (Tuesday), and tell him I’m going to need the product ASAP because I have a party this saturday.
He then responded that normally he would have to wait until monday to start my order, but since it was a smaller one he could have it ready for Saturday morning for pickup.
I thanked him and said that if he were to have it ready for Saturday, it would have to be by 10 because I had to be at the event by 11.
He responded by saying, “Oh man, I dont want to break your balls on the morning of your event, how about you come pick it up on friday at 7 at night then.”
Wow! Thats fantastic! Thanks so much! (I respond)
So three days pass, here comes friday…
I drive out 55 minutes to his shop through rush-hour traffic.
I show up, at 6:55. Walk into the shop.
“Umm, Hi James… what are you doing here so late?”
“Haha what do you mean I’m here to get my stuff.”
“Oh well there not going to be done until tomorrow morning”
“…uhh… but……….*clears throat* Didn’t you say you were going to have it ready by 7?”
“…No-no-no-no…umm… I said I would call you if they were done by 7. You must have misheard me.”
…
“Soo.. when are they going to be done by? Will they be done tonight? Should I stick around here for a hour or two?”
“Welll….they’ll be done for sure by tomorrow.”
“…That doesn’t answer my question. Will it be done by tonight?”
“Well…I can garentee you the’ll be done by tomorow morning.”
“Sorry. Your not answering my question. A’m I driving back home? or will it be done tonight?”
“Well to do it tonight I’d have to stay until like midnight.”
“So. Yes? or No.”
“… No. The’ll be done by tomorow”
“Thanks. Thats all I needed to know.” (I leave the shop)
So.
Now I get back in my car, Drive back through the same traffic because its now 7:05. And get home feeling ripped off.
Heres my analysis of this situation.
My supplier went above and beyond when he said that he could have it ready by Friday. He originally told me it was going to be ready by saturday morning. Which although tight, would have been good enough for me.
From that point in my mind, he made 3 mistakes.
First and foremost. He re-negged on his promise. He told me ”I don’t want to break your balls, Pick it up friday night” and he didn’t deliver.
This is the nitty-gritty of my post. First lesson. Don’t make promises you cant keep. All you have as a small business is your reputation. Treat it like gold.
Secondly, after made a point that he made said promise, he told me I misheard him.
Even If I did mishear him, making a point of it doesn’t help his situation. The last thing an angry customer wants to hear is that It’s their fault. All they want to hear is “oh my gosh. I’m so sorry. I apologize. I’m going to do everything in my power to fix this fast.” So even if he comes back and says “Hey look, I screwed up and I’m sorry, theres no way I can get this done by tonight, I know its shitty but I can have it done by tomorrow.” You’ll leave feeling disappointed, but not insulted. And if your sincere, you can make it up to them.
Finally, and probably the most subtle mistake, was he let me leave feeling angry. He didn’t try to apologize, or calm me down. I left his building feeling like I wasn’t a valuable customer and I immediately called a friend to rant about what just happened. In small business word travels quickly, do everything you can to contain bad press.
Here’s what he should have done. (Or I would have done)
Sucked it up. Appologize. Take the blame. And if he could have, offer to stay to midnight to finish the job.
If he couldn’t stay, make a point of admitting how sorry he is and make sure the customer feels valuable. I would have also made it a point to offer some sort of discount or attempt to make it right.
Icing on the cake. Write a hand written apology letter saying again how sorry you are that this happened, with some small giftcard (like $15) to chapters.
I guarantee you. If you do that, your customers will not only come back to you. They’ll tell their friends how professional you acted were when you were wrong.
Treat your customers like gold, and make your screw ups a selling opportunity.

J